Finding Confidence Through Connection

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Boy and male mentor embracing

Malik* joined the Wonder Mentoring Program when he was seven years old. He was a quiet boy who preferred observing to participating. At recess, he often lingered alone near a row of trees by the fence.

Through their past association with Stanford Sierra Youth & Families, Malik’s adoptive parents knew about the Wonder Mentoring Program, which serves youth impacted by foster care. They contacted Wonder to explore a mentor match, believing the right connection could be transformative. They were right.

Working with Malik’s parents, Wonder staff sought a mentor who shared Malik’s background and heritage. They found that match in Jordan*, who had recently completed mentor training.

Malik and Jordan quickly discovered a shared love of baseball and attended a Sacramento River Cats game together. They also made space to explore each other’s interests. During a visit to a comic book store, Malik proudly shared his favorite series, excited to explain the characters and storylines to someone who cared.

In turn, Malik wanted to learn more about Jordan. One Saturday, they attended a cooking class together, an experience Malik loved so much that he asked his parents to recreate the meal at home. Shrimp scampi with angel hair pasta remains one of his favorite dishes, tied closely to time spent with his mentor.

As Malik felt seen and valued, his confidence grew. Teachers noticed him participating more in class and playing with classmates at recess. At home, his family saw more laughter, curiosity, and eagerness to share stories about his time with Jordan.

Today, Malik is thriving. His world feels bigger, safer, and full of possibility. The strong mentor match, his family’s advocacy, and time spent with Jordan created the connection he needed—and that all young people deserve.

 

*Names have been changed to protect confidentiality.